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Are You in a Good Mood Today?

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I was walking down Meldrum to the soup kitchen entrance this morning when I ran into one of the guests. Our conversation went something like this:

Guest: “Good Morning, Br. Bob, I saw you on T.V.”

Me: “Did I do well?”

Guest: “Oh yes, you do so much for people. You are a kind man. Everybody should get along. God made everybody…I don’t drink, do drugs or get high.”

Me: “Good for you, brother.”

Plenty of Time


The other day, I was doing a transaction at the local gas station. It was taking an extremely long time. I was getting anxious about the long line taking shape behind me. I turned to the gentleman just behind me and told him I was sorry this was taking so long.  He replied with a smile, “I have time, I have plenty of time. Don’t you worry.” And as I was leaving, he blessed with the beautiful greeting I hear so often in Detroit, ““You be careful out there. Watch your back.”



Last Friday afternoon, a distraught mother sort of pushed her 8 year old daughter into my office so that I could talk with her.  The little girl, Alice, had a crumbled paper indicating that she had already served a one day “in-school” suspension and now had just been served a one day “out of school” suspension for outbursts, defiance and talking back.

I asked Alice to tell me all that had happened.  She pretty much agreed that she explodes, has outbursts and often, has great trouble controlling her behavior. We talked briefly about how important it was to think before reacting and screaming angry words.  She told me that my previous idea of counting to ten just didn’t work for her; did I have any other ideas?

Riding Bikes Home

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Shortly after Christmas, a mother came in with her children a girl aged five and a boy aged 4. She indicated that she just wanted food and clothing and realized she was too late for our Christmas program. The little girl noticed a bike for girls in my office she indicated the bike looked good and asked if she could touch it.

I indicated she could and she went over and said it looked like a nice bike and ask how much did it cost? I said that I did not know. She said it was alright because her mother could not afford to buy her a bike no matter what the cost.